A dating plan built around your actual life.
Good advice changes when your schedule, goals, life stage, social circle, and comfort level change. The plan starts with those realities instead of pretending everyone should date the same way.
What the plan is designed to understand
- who you are hoping to meet;
- your relationship goal;
- your age and life stage;
- your current online and offline dating activity;
- the time you can realistically give dating;
- where you already spend time;
- the obstacle that seems to be getting in the way.
What a useful plan should do
It should create concrete actions you can actually take, not a motivational list. It should also change as you learn more about what is working, what feels wrong, and what kind of relationship you actually want.
What it will not do
It will not guarantee a relationship, score your desirability, tell you to manipulate someone, or pretend there is one timing rule that works for every person.